A Paradox of the Change

Some fears the change and some wants the change. Normally a tendancy of the mind when time is bad we want the change and when time is good we don't want the change. But when we look closely at the life the change is inveitable.A simple day with time changes its shades, like that situations, people around do change with time sometimes noticable someimes un-noticable, but change is happening. If we accept this fact we will be peaceful. Why we don't want the change because it gives the comfort. Everyone wants the absolute comfort. There is something in us we is not changing. This is the reference point because of which we identify all the changes. Reposing in the non-changing entity gives us the absolute comfort. Some bad situation around us definitely we want to change and yes we should give 100% to change it. However with the action done with the peaceful state of mind, with reposing in the self, we may get the desired results. And anyway from our own experience the change is inevtiable. That is the paradox.